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In Our Homes ...Against children

Children are utterly dependant on the others in their homes. The violence that children experience, usually at the hands of adults, is a painful illustration of the fact that children are the most powerless members of society. Children never choose to be victims of or witnesses to violence but are often are, and often survive even extreme violence with creative and inspiring resilience.

What is childhood violence? The Canadian Centre for Justice Studies says that:

Examining the nature and extent of child abuse or maltreatment of children and youth is a complex issue covering a variety of negative experiences and conditions, such as physical assault, sexual assault, emotional/psychological abuse, neglect and witnessing violence
(Canadian Centre for Justice Studies, 2005:68).

The betrayal and trauma experienced by survivors of abuse is extremely complex and has impacts that long outlast childhood. Inherent in this type of abuse are secrecy, boundary violations and abuse of power that cause these children to experience feelings of complicity, guilt and fear. These feelings affect their core beliefs about themselves.

Children also respond to being exposed to violence in their home, such as violence toward their mother, siblings, or pets. They may internalize the anger and violence through anxiety or depression, or externalize it by being aggressive themselves. They may suffer from post traumatic stress disorder. How children are affected by witnessing abuse depends on whether they are also abused and neglected, and whether the abusers are substance abusers or addicts, or have a mental illness. Children who witness violence are witnessing domestic violence, intimate partner abuse and woman abuse. These forms of violence support the interconnected power structures of our world—evidence of how violence works in systemic ways through individual lives.

All around the world, children are vulnerable in their homes. Child brides, as just one example, have little say in their own lives. Prioritizing education may help to avoid early marriages. As it stands, currently over 100 million young girls will become brides over the next decade. If nothing changes, 100 million children will be lost to the cycle of poverty that continues generation after generation. Children with physical and intellectual disabilities are particularly vulnerable to their caregivers. Those with intellectual disabilities who seek to tell or show that they have experienced violence are frequently not understood or believed.

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VideoVideos

Jeannine’s Story
A video about domestic abuse and the cycle of violence. An example that sometimes healing means helping others heal too:

The Bride Price
What is the price of being married off as a child?

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PicturesPictures

Daddy’s Little Girl and I Will Break Free by Liz Lambert

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Daddy's Little Girl      I Will Break Free

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The effects and consequences of violence on children
Power and control wheels reveal the story.

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Stories

Easy to ReadMy Name is Rose
A story of dreams and harsh realities.

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StatisticsStatistics

The sexually violent patriarchal structure is firmly held in place within the Canadian family: girls represent 80% of family-related sexual assaults.ii The terror in which young girls and women live in both public and private spaces, and the normalization of this experience, is evident in statistics that show that 54% of girls under the age of 16 have experienced some form of unwanted sexual attention. Almost one in four (24%) of these have experienced sexual assault, and 17% have experienced incest.iii In Canada, parents represent 70% of perpetrators of physical assault and 40% of perpetrators of sexual assault against children and youth.i

Canadian Incidence Study of Reported Child Abuse and Neglect - Major Findings

Child Abuse: International Statistics, Research and Resources

i Canadian Centre for Justice Studies (2005). Family Violence in Canada: A Statistical Profile

ii Alicia Summers, M.S. (2006). Children's Exposure to Domestic Violence: A Guide to Research and Resources

iii Sexual Assault Care Centre (1999). Myths and Facts About Sexual Assault

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